Strengthening Your Emotional Intelligence: Stop Triangulating

Triangulation defined:  a tactic where one person will not communicate directly with another person, instead, s/he uses a third person to relay communication to the second, thus forming a triangle. Manipulative, controlling, and destructive. We all need to vent, but venting to a loved one can quickly become triangulation. Avoid the relationship sin of triangulation by …

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Strengthening Your Emotional Intelligence: Stop Triangulating

Triangulation defined:  a tactic where one person will not communicate directly with another person, instead, s/he uses a third person to relay communication to the second, thus forming a triangle. Manipulative, controlling, and destructive. We all need to vent, but venting to a loved one can quickly become triangulation. Avoid the relationship sin of triangulation by …

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Killing Relationships by Third Party Complaints

Be like NASCAR Drivers: be who you are up front. That also means not just dressing to say who you are, but being direct about what you do not like. Third party complaining is venting to another person about something you do not like in yet another person and with the expectation they will tell …

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Complaining? Stop

Daily Prompt: I can’t complain, he floored me with a rock, then tried to hit me with a forklift and, you guessed it,   he missed. Last laugh is mine; he hurt his back trying to hurt me.  Justice prevails. Emotional fitness thoughts about Complaining When something hurts complaining once or twice to those that can hear  eases the …

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