How To Get Real And Improve Your Emotional Intelligence.

Making nice-nice all the time is dishonest, secretive, and not just what politicians do. We all do it. But just as too much sugar is not good for our bodies, too much nice-nice is not good for our hearts or our emotional well-being. Nor is being mean all the time. The better way? Saying what …

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How Confusion Improves Your Emotional Intelligence.

Two Thoughts To Use Confusion To Improve Your Emotional Intelligence First thought: The hypnotists use a confusion technique to put you under their spell. Milton Erickson, a great hypnotist and therapist, noted that few things get our attention easier than confusion. How? Confusion is generally dangerous and we all want to be safe. So when someone …

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Perplexed? Good! But,Think Carefully Before Acting

Why good? Confusion gets your brain going, makes you think harder. Thinking before acting is the heart of EFT’s Game Plan. So confusion is good. Not always good, however. If something is too confusing, the brain shuts down. Why the admen and women use confusion, particular in television ads.  All TV ads ask you to …

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MOVING MEANS CHANGE

This Word Press Daily Prompt suggested:  Tell  us about a time when you felt out of place.  A week ago today all was in disarray and mostly in boxes as we had moved to new quarters.   Today finds us more or less, unpacked. The essentials are out and in place.  We are back on-line. Although at times …

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