How To Get Real And Improve Your Emotional Intelligence.

Making nice-nice all the time is dishonest, secretive, and not just what politicians do. We all do it. But just as too much sugar is not good for our bodies, too much nice-nice is not good for our hearts or our emotional well-being. Nor is being mean all the time. The better way? Saying what …

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How Confusion Improves Your Emotional Intelligence.

Two Thoughts To Use Confusion To Improve Your Emotional Intelligence First thought: The hypnotists use a confusion technique to put you under their spell. Milton Erickson, a great hypnotist and therapist, noted that few things get our attention easier than confusion. How? Confusion is generally dangerous and we all want to be safe. So when someone …

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HOW TO PICK THE CROWDS YOU FOLLOW – A SNEAKY HYPNOSIS POST

Prejudice starts in pain or fear. Loss of connectedness to others hurts. Why crowd contagion works as a Sneaky Hypnotic Tool. What to do? Know that the bigger the crowd the more likely you will be at risk of being controlled by Sneaky Hypnosis.  PARENTING TIPs Tip one: Don’t mindlessly follow the crowd yourself. How …

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FIVE TIPS FOR KEEPING PREJUDICE FROM RULING YOU – SNEAKY HYPNOTSIM SERIES

Sneaky Hypnotists build on prejudices. Think about young men in hoodies,  women in Burgas, men in Yarmulkes, “people whose skin is a different shade.” Prejudice starts in pain or fear. Pain is personal and leads to  fear. As one theorist claims, all negative feelings are pain or fear of pain. A useful thought. However, not …

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