FINDING BEAUTY STRENGTHENS YOUR EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

  EMOTIONAL FITNESS TIPS FOR FINDING BEAUTY Tip one: Learn to look for beauty, here there and everywhere.  Find beauty in rocks., roots, and weeds as well as the more usual places. Tip two: Be with beauty by looking for it, then when you find it, breathe in slowly, focus, hold, absorb, breathe out slowly, smile …

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How To Fret Less About Politics – Six EFT Tips

Apparently, the rates of clinical depression have increased since Trump took office. Sad, but even sadder are the increases in hate talk and fear-mongering that are now every present in all news.  I would worry less if such increases did not lead of the more unstable to acting violently. either against others or the self. Both …

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HUGS, WARM FUZZIES, AND YOU

EMOTIONAL FITNESS THOUGHTS ABOUT HUGS The Transactional Analysts (TA) speak of Warm Fuzzies. The idea started with Claude Steiner, one of the greats of TA.  He gave me a warm fuzzy at one of his workshops with a 30-second comment. No one knew he was speaking directly to me.  He had noticed my painful expression because …

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How To Get Results – Communicating With Emotional Intelligence

Surprised by the response to things you say? Getting into fights that go nowhere? Friends fading? Loved one’s angry? These Emotional Fitness Training Tips will get you more of what you want from people. Tip one: Because communication is the response, not getting the response you want is useful information. Make a neutral response of some sort, “I …

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