Three Ways to Be the Best You

First think about this: being loved for who you appear to be is not love at all. Appearances matter little when it comes to true love. Here’s a joke on my. Hubby had a mustache. Shaved it off. Did I notice? No. Three days with a naked upper lip and he finally asked me if …

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TUNNEL VISION DESTROYS RELATIONSHIPS

In a tunnel? Walk toward the light, but hope and do your version of prayer that the light is not a locomotive heading your way. Hope: good. Reality best. Emotional Fitness Thoughts Tunnel vision in a relationship refers to the tendency to focus on what is bad rather than the good or hoping and working to make the …

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Insider? Outsider? Depends.

Is it better to be on the inside looking out, or the outside looking in? A good question for challenging your #emotional intelligence.  Three related laughs: The Sabra plant is tenacious, thorny desert plant, known in English as Prickly Pear.  You don’t want to hug one, but the thorns hide a sweet, soft interior.  But here’s …

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