“Flattery will get you everywhere.”

Or so my father said. This #Emotional_Fitness Training blog post examines why so many of us reject sincere praise as unacceptable flattery.  I hate it worse when my doctor says “My brain is fine.”  She doesn’t add “For your age” but the thought is there. And yes, I do look pretty good for my age …

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Where live the giants?

  This Emotional Fitness Training blog post explores the gifts of my parents’ generation, called critics of the Greatest or the GI generation. What went wrong?  Emotional fitness thoughts and tip My mother and father lived through the Great Depression and the horrors of World War II, the Cold War, Viet Nam and all the …

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Telling it like it is

This Emotional Fitness Training blog post explores the heart of love. Letting you become the best you can be.  Takes lots of #emotionalhealth to do that.  Needs someone who loves you enough to keep it real.   Emotional Fitness Thoughts and Tips Our inner child is a bearing of much false witnessing. The Curse of …

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The Curse of Personal Knowledge

This Emotional Fitness Training blog post explores the Curse of Personal Knowledge. Not stepping out of our personal view-point lowers #emotionalintelligence and creates conflict.  Emotional Fitness Thoughts and Tips The Curse of Personal Knowledge is defined as you  knowing something and not being able to image others don’t know it also. It is a cognitive flaw …

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