Living What Matters Is The Heart of Emotional Intelligence

The world is full of people wanting you to do this or that, buy this or that, join this or that. Keeping focused on what matters is difficult.  Think for a minute about what matters most to you.  Make a list. Here’s mine in order:  My family, my friends, the children of the world, working for …

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Strengthening Your Emotional Intelligence: Stop Triangulating

Triangulation defined:  a tactic where one person will not communicate directly with another person, instead, s/he uses a third person to relay communication to the second, thus forming a triangle. Manipulative, controlling, and destructive. We all need to vent, but venting to a loved one can quickly become triangulation. Avoid the relationship sin of triangulation by …

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Strengthening Your Emotional Intelligence: Stop Triangulating

Triangulation defined:  a tactic where one person will not communicate directly with another person, instead, s/he uses a third person to relay communication to the second, thus forming a triangle. Manipulative, controlling, and destructive. We all need to vent, but venting to a loved one can quickly become triangulation. Avoid the relationship sin of triangulation by …

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Strengthening Your Emotional Intelligence: Stop Using Either-Or Thinking

  Thank You For All You Do Be kind to me by liking, commenting on, or sharing this and other EFT posts. Better yet, practice kindness by subscribing  to this blog if buying one of my ebooks. Here’s the link to my Amazon Author’s Page. Katherine Links of Interest Emotional Intelligence  (en.wikipedia.org) The five components of …

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