COOPERATION NOT ALWAYS GOOD

This post is about bullying. You cannot stay strong or emotionally healthy if bullied.  Adults are often bullied, don’t think this is just for kids. You need to know when to cooperate in other words when to go along to get along.  You also need to know when to stand up for you and that …

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POWER LEADING

KNOW SOME ODDS? CHILDREN, STUDENTS, EMPLOYEES WHO ALWAYS SAY “NO?”   ODDs often drive parents, teachers, and bosses crazy.  Guess what? Cranky Old Lady things that is why Shrinks have a name for those who never say yes–Oppositional Defiant Disorder.  It is a disorder because it rules the person’s life, they can rarely if ever …

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POWER LEADING

ONE FOR PARENTS FIRST, THEN FOR OTHER POWER LEADERS  (family, friends, teachers, preachers, coaches, big bosses, supervisors. RULE ONE FOR ALL: Know what is possible, what you can control, what the other can or cannot do. The following post has three participants.  A mother, a child out of control, a disapproving bystander. Dear Shopper Staring at …

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POWER LEADING

BLOWING YOUR TOP?  USEFUL?  SOMETIMES  VERY USEFUL.  As a kid ow did you know when each of your parents meant you’d better obey?  I often asked that question at parenting workshops  on discipline. My mother  yelled , not all the time, but enough of the time, that you knew you didn’t have to pay attention until …

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