Flattery: Just Another Way to Lie

One of my father’s favorite sayings was “Flattery will get you no where.” Sometimes with a hint ot grin he would say, “Flattery will get you every where.” Both statements are true. One comment about the original definition of flattery noted that it started as a description of self-deception. You do lie to yourself when …

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UNHAPPY? TIME TO CHANGE – EFTI TIPS

Living is learning and learning is changing. Learning starts with birth, but it is up to us to keep on learning as we grow. To stop is to die an early brain death. Emotional Fitness Tips Tip one: Make it fun to learn. Too many equate learning with dull days sitting in a classroom and …

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SAY WHAT YOU MEAN, BUT DON’T SAY IT MEAN – Six EFTI Tips

Even when you do not say it mean, you risk friendships. Ask me, I know. This poster by my friend at Gaping Void prompted me to post a bit about feedback. ¬†Feedback is a way to say what needs saying so it might be heard. Warning: Getting a Ph.D. in the art of providing feedback …

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STOP BEING RANDOM WHEN IT COMES TO KINDNESS – EFT TIPS

February 17th is Random Acts of Kindness Day. Hopefully having ¬†a Special Day to do so will get you in the habit. Emotional Fitness Thoughts and Tips Another Poster Coach. Remember many of my poster coaches are available for downloading at the EFTI Store. When you print them up and post somewhere, like an in …

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