Strengthening Your Emotional Intelligence: Stop Triangulating

Triangulation defined:  a tactic where one person will not communicate directly with another person, instead, s/he uses a third person to relay communication to the second, thus forming a triangle. Manipulative, controlling, and destructive. We all need to vent, but venting to a loved one can quickly become triangulation. Avoid the relationship sin of triangulation by …

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Strengthening Your Emotional Intelligence: Stop Triangulating

Triangulation defined:  a tactic where one person will not communicate directly with another person, instead, s/he uses a third person to relay communication to the second, thus forming a triangle. Manipulative, controlling, and destructive. We all need to vent, but venting to a loved one can quickly become triangulation. Avoid the relationship sin of triangulation by …

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Strengthening Your Emotional Intelligence: Stop Using Either-Or Thinking

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Victim or Hero/Heroine? Your Choice: Stengthening Your Emotional Intelligence Six Tips

Life is pain and pleasure, how the pain is handled makes you a victim or a heroine/hero. I love the coming together of women in the Me Too Movement. At the same time, I despair because the line has been blurred between rape, sexual harassment, and more innocent, but intrusive gropes. As I have mentioned …

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