SIX TIPS FOR DEALING WITH TOXIC PEOPLE

Oprah and many other people tell you to deal with toxic people by abandoning them. Even family members and once-upon-a-time friends. Not a good idea for two reasons. One: The feelings created in you by toxic encounters, belong to you and are your responsibility to deal with. I doubt you would be upset if I called you …

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SIX TIPS FOR KEEPING PREJUDICE FROM RULING YOU

  Prejudice starts in pain or fear. Pain is personal and leads to fear. As one theorist claims, all negative feelings are pain or fear of pain. A useful thought. However, not all fears come from personal experiences, Prejudices, in particular, are passed down from one generation to another.  As the Roger and Hammerstein noted …

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Adhuminiem, Do You Know What It Means? 3 Tips To Strengthen Emotional Intelligence

Emotional Fitness Training® is about thinking logically.  Doing so improves your emotional intelligence. The more you can spot logical fallacies, the stronger your critical thinking skills. This post focuses on the fallacy of attacking the person instead of the argument. The Media uses ad hominem attacks to awaken your urge to buy things. How? One way …

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Perplexed? Good! But,Think Carefully Before Acting

Why good? Confusion gets your brain going, makes you think harder. Thinking before acting is the heart of EFT’s Game Plan. So confusion is good. Not always good, however. If something is too confusing, the brain shuts down. Why the admen and women use confusion, particular in television ads.  All TV ads ask you to …

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