Not Radical: Common Sense Tips to the Good Life

 

Story about the unity of all human kind

The sages of the ages have  preached for years: treating each other like treasured brothers and sisters is the truest path to Peace on Earth. The modern-day researchers also preach this.

Emotional Fitness Tips

Tip one: Remember, any label pasted on a person is but a drop in the ocean of who that person is. 

Tip two: Know that, our brains are programmed to use labels. Labels make thinking easier, but not more reality based.

Tip three: See the strong feelings that drive thought and behavior as a signal to slow down, stay calm so you can think carefully before acting. Acting on strong feelings without careful thought finds all doing things they regret or should regret.

Tip four: Keep learning about all people including yourself. Each of us is an ocean of complexity. The more you know about you, your bad side as well as your good side, the more you will understand; the more you understand, the more you act more wisely;   

Tip five:  Stay safe, do not reward unacceptable behavior. Understanding another does not mean letting them behavior cruelly. Cruel behavior must be punished. When the unacceptable behavior is contained, then practice forgiveness of yourself and others. Forgiveness at this level means not seeking revenge.

Tip six: Beef up your self-soothing skills.  The more you build calmness into your life,  the more you can escape the trap of victimhood.  Explore and learn what Marsha Linehan calls Radical Acceptance.

For more help strengthening these skills buy Self-Soothing, How to Create Calmness in Your Life. It costs less than a latte and does more good.

Thank you for all you do

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Katherine

Post Inspiration: This post was inspired by inspired by WordPress Daily  One Word Prompt: Radical.

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Links of Interest

These links are for those not familiar with Emotional Intelligence or the idea of Emotional Fitness.

 

Agree or disagree, comments are always welcomed.