Even while pushing 80, I fantasize encounters out side of the bonds of marriage; in those encounters no need to worry about safe sex rules which are:
Actually I made the above poster for parents of teens. But the rules apply to everyone, so I am posting it here and on my Parents Are People Too Blog.
Thank you WordPress Daily Prompt for making today’s post so easy. That prompt: Go down the rabbit hole with Alice; play quidditch with Harry Potter; float down the river with Huck Finn… If you could choose three fictional events or adventures to experience yourself, what would they be?
The sex scene in Juliet in Zefereli’s Romeo and Juliet sex scene, Scarlett O’Hara being swept off her feet by Rhett Butler in Gone With the Wind; Replacing any of Johnny Depp’s lovers but he will be Don Juan DeMarco not a pirate. Need I say more.
EMOTIONAL FITNESS THOUGHT AND TIP
One of the way priests and other control seekers gain power is by declaring thoughts the same as deeds. Caused former President James Carter to confess to sinning. His sin: He lusted after other women in his heart. No sin in my book.
Then there were any number of presidents who did more than lust in their hearts. As I don’t know the exact nature of their sexual contracts with their partners and sexual contacts, I withhold judgement.
Tip one: If not lusting in your heart keeps you from acting badly, lust away.
Tip two: If you do more than lust in your heart at least follow my safe sex rules.
Tip three: If a parent, teach your version of the safe sex rules, but be alert to the power of desire. Do so with a matter-of-fact attitude, rather than hell and damnation threats.
Few things require more thinking about than our sexual desires. Some say men in particular tend to think with two heads and the one between their legs often rules. As sexual tensions build, that head takes over more and more. Which is why I personally believe enjoying sexual fantasies and even indulging in the too often forbidden pleasures of masturbation might do more to bring peace on earth than trying to repress such thoughts or deeds.
If this offends you, apologies. However, do think a bit about why and then about how helping all find safe release from the build up of sexual tensions might help create peace on earth.
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Thank you for all you do and as always work to stay strong, which while is not easy, more possible than you might think.
LINKS AND ARTICLES OF INTEREST
- Sexual Repression Does Not Work (psychologytoday.com )
- Sexual repression (en.wikipedia.org)
- Brainwashed (en.wikipedia.org)
- The Curse of Personal Knowledge. (eft.org)
- The Daily Prompt (wordpress.com)
- Emotional Intelligence (en.wikipedia.org)
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