INSTEAD OF ACTING LIKE A GROWN UP,  TAKE TIME TO PLAY A LITTLE EVERY DAY.  Good advice for some, not so hot for others.  Are you a work-a-holic?  A corporate slave?  Doing too much for others?  Or are you a play boy or girl? A member of the Slackers?  The trick is to hit the right balance.  A job well done is a source of feeling competent and competency is the cornerstone of positive self-esteem.  When the pursuit of the feel good aspect of competency becomes work-a-holism; fun and play don’t get their  due.  When the pursuit of the feel   good part of fun and play consume competency, fun-a-holism is in control.   In both situations, connectedness to others is damaged and in the long run, positive relationships light up our lives.

Piglet sidled up to Pooh from behind.  “Pooh!” he whispered.  “Yes, Piglet?”  “Nothing,” said Piglet, taking Pooh’s paw.  “I just wanted to be sure of you.”
A.A. Milne

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