The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own.  You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president.  You realize you control your own destiny.

Albert Ellis

I agree with much, but think chance plays a part and thinking we control all is one reason we blame others.   I think we do best when we control what we can when we can and accept what we can’t control with as good grace as possible.

Agree or disagree, comments are always welcomed.

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