As the sages of the ages always knew and the researchers now confirm, the best lives are those who practice gratitude, kindness, and forgiveness.
One word of warning: kindness and forgiveness does not mean exposing yourself to known dangers. Those who abuse must be contained.
With that thought comes this Emotional Fitness Training tip – Learn self=defense and best learned from a Peace Dojo who teaches both conflict resolution and how to stay safe if efforts to remain peaceful fail.
Thank you for all you do
Remember to share all you find of value on the internet. All who post crave recognition. A like says “Thank You.” Comments say you have read and thought about the post. Sharing is a gift to three people: the blogger, the people you share with, and you for your kindness blesses you.
Note: the Jewish High Holidays mean I will not be writing posts. I am going to make an effort to schedule some simple reminders of what matters. Wish me luck.
Post Inspiration: This post was inspired by this WordPress Daily One Word Prompt: Value.
Links of Interest
These links are for those not familiar with Emotional Intelligence or the idea of Emotional Fitness.
- Emotional Intelligence (en.wikipedia.org)
- The five components of emotional Intelligence (www.sonoma.edu)
- About Emotional Fitness Training (emotionalfitnesstraining.com)
- An Emotional Fitness Program for Parents (amazon.com)
Even the most learned researchers and therapists quarrel about much. Take their advice and mine carefully. Don’t just listen to your heart, but also think; don’t just think, listen to your heart. Heart and head working together increase the odds you will find useful advice amid all the promises and hopes pushed at you be others. As others have noted, take what seems useful, leave the rest.
Disclamer two: Forgive my grammatical errors
If you need perfect posts, you will not find them here; I will understand if you don’t follow, like or share what like me. Not only am I dealing with an aging brain, but all of my life I have been plagued by dysgraphia–a learning disability, Some of my posts might be peppered with bad spelling, poor punctuation, and worse words that make no sense. If you want to hang in with me, thank you; you are kind. If a post doesn’t make sense or bugs you too much, stop reading, I will understand.