The SMART goal series continues. I didn’t make last week’s goal. Sigh. You need to measure your progress and motivation weekly to succeed.
My motivation remains at a four, five, and six.
My goal for last week was to get my eBook Twelve Easy Daily Emotional Fitness Exercises edited and ready to publish as an EFTI PDF eBook. Didn’t happen. But my motivation remains high enough to succeed, and I will attempt to meet last week’s goal by Friday of this week.
Have you been following my SMART Goal setting series. If not, you might want to skip ahead and read from the beginning. If so, skip down to the links section at the bottom of this post. Otherwise, read on.
When you do not meet a daily or weekly goal, you need to figure out why not and then set a strategy for moving on or changing your goal.
I almost made this week’s goal. I made it a top priority, stopped blogging daily, spent less time on social media, stopped lots of other things. What happened then? Two things.
First, I got bit by perfectionism. Instead of proof-reading and just correcting the errors doing so revealed, I got into copy editing and rewriting. I made some major revisions and I am pleased with them.
I revised the title and then had to spend some time aligning the content to match the title. I think that was worth it as I think the revised title might sell better than the old one. The new one:
The new one: Cross-train Your Brain and Strengthen Your Emotional Intelligence with the subtitle: Practice These Easy Emotional Fitness Exercises. Do you agree it might have more sales appeal?
The second barrier to success was my commitment to another goal. That goal? Balancing my life better. Which means not stressing so much when family and friends called. This week one of the grandchildren was sick; he needed to be with us instead of at daycare. We had a wonderful time together, but no work happened on my EFTI goal.
Today, I have a social date with my husband to go to a Learn at Lunch Torah class. I almost gave that up but decided our date was more important, particularly as we missed going when our caring for our sick grandson.
However, I need to get that eBook out. So I had to review my goal, my motivation and set a strategy for this week. This week’s goal: To week at the same pace but concentrating on proofreading only, then making the cover, then publishing the book by Friday.
CRITICAL THINKING EXERCISE
WordPress Daily Prompt Key Takeaway
Give your newer sisters and brothers-in-WordPress one piece of advice based on your experiences blogging.
My advice: Obvious. Set a SMART goal. Takes time, but makes all the difference in whether you will feel successful and have the energy to keep going.
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LINKS TO THE SMART GOAL SERIES
- Know Your Mission and Get The Good Life
- When a Goal is Not Met the Wrong Goal was Set
- Three More Tips for Reaching Your Goal
- Know Your Strengths and Weaknesses
- What Do You Want
- SMART Goal Setting and the Big M
- Stepping Toward Your Goal
LINKS OF INTEREST
These links are for those not familiar with Emotional Intelligence or the idea of Emotional Fitness.
Easy Emotional Fitness Exercises (www.emotionalfitnesstraining.com
The five components of Emotional Intelligence (www.sonoma.edu)Emotional Intelligence (en.wikipedia.org)Emotional Fitness Tips for Parents (parentsarepeopletoo.com)
An Emotional Fitness Program for Parents(amazon.com)